3.21.21 – Daily Dose of Worship. A study on Matthew. Part 50. Forgiveness.

Yesterday we finished the Lord’s Prayer but it’s interesting that when Jesus finished, he reiterated this point in Matthew 6:14-15.

“For if you forgive other people for their offenses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive other people, then your Father will not forgive your offenses.”

So, thinking this through…obviously a very important point if he’s bringing it up again…

In verses 14 & 15, Jesus returns to a key point in that prayer. As part of the way believers are to pray, Jesus mentioned asking God to “forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 5:12). That can be understood fairly easily. It means asking God for forgiveness, as well as declaring our forgiveness of those who have wronged us.

What Christ teaches here is that forgiveness is conditional, but only in a very specific sense. If you forgive the sins of others against you, Jesus says your heavenly Father will also forgive you. If you don’t forgive, you won’t be forgiven (Matthew 6:15). Of all the instructions Jesus gives in the Sermon on the Mount, this is among the most challenging. It is also extremely easy to misunderstand, if not considered carefully. Taken with no other context, Jesus seems to be saying we earn God’s forgiveness after we forgive the sins of others against us, and we lose forgiveness when we refuse to forgive others. Difficult or not, Jesus is speaking with the authority of God, and He always means what He says. We should never dismiss Jesus’ teaching because it is hard to understand or to reconcile with other teachings. We should also not leap to conclusions which don’t make sense of His other words.

In His other messages, Jesus repeatedly emphasized that God is displeased by those who refuse to forgive others despite being forgiven for much greater wrongs by God (Matthew 18:23–35). There is a clear sense in Christian teaching that unforgiving attitudes are inherently sinful. At the same time, Jesus is speaking before His own death as the final sacrifice for human sin. His blood, His loss of life, is the payment for sin, including the sin of unforgiveness (John 3:16–17). God takes Jesus’ death as payment for the sins of those who trust in Christ and gives to them credit for Jesus’ sinless life. None of us will be accepted into eternity by God based on our ability to forgive others (Titus 3:5), but on the basis of Jesus’ perfect righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21).

Paul describes it this way in Colossians 2:13–14, “And you, who were dead in your trespasses…God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.”

Taken together with the rest of the Bible, we see that salvation—forgiveness from God—is based on faith, and it is permanent. However, there are signs and “symptoms” one would expect to see in a person who is truly born again. It makes sense that appreciating all God has forgiven in us ought to make us willing to forgive what others might have done to us. Forgiveness towards others is a common-sense, expected indicator of someone who’s been saved.

Forgiveness. It’s common sense of some who has been saved.

Yes, that makes perfect sense….yet….do we practice that? Do we truly forgive as we have been forgiven? Do we truly turn the other cheek? Do we truly forgive as Christ has forgiven us?

Jesus never said it would be easy…..just expected.


  1. Patti S on March 21, 2021 at 5:30 am

    Looking back on things in my life, I am so grateful for what God has taken me thru. There are countless times I have had healing in my life. Of course, in the midst of it, I would NOT have said I was grateful. And, at the center was always forgiveness. I use my life examples in ways I believe God wants of me. And I use this as an example as to why God has shown me forgiveness is essential, and He is in it.

    I come from a family of alcoholism, my FOO (family of origin). The level of drinking brought violence. It was generations ago. It skewed everything. This sin brought years of change. With God leading me, I have a deeper understanding of my family. Why different choices were made. It helps me to have a glimmer of seeing how God sees other people in my family, without all his/her stuff, baggage. I have been able to see this thru the eyes of forgiveness and only because of God.

    My forgiveness is not done. But, what I have been able to forgive has had powerful positive repercussions. I see God’s grace in it. And I am sure I’m not fully aware, yet, where God is asking me to ‘ask for forgiveness’ or to ‘forgive’.

    Forgiveness in my life is a journey and will continue to be.

    It isn’t simple. But it can be so beautiful.

    Because of Him

    • Suzanne R on March 21, 2021 at 9:42 am

      Amen. !!

    • Sherri H on March 22, 2021 at 7:49 am

      Amen definitely forgiveness is best otherwise it will eat you alive with bitterness , anger , hatred in other words a miserable life

  2. Suzanne R on March 21, 2021 at 9:45 am

    This really stood out to me ; None of us will be accepted into eternity by God based on our ability to forgive others (Titus 3:5), but on the basis of Jesus’ perfect righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21).

    I do try to live by ‘forgiving because God first forgave me’ but………it’s not always easy.

    • Sherri H on March 22, 2021 at 7:50 am

      Definitely not easy but Definitely a must.

  3. Peggy F on March 21, 2021 at 12:54 pm

    One day, one minute, one second at a time! grace…………unmerited, undeserved favor of Almighty God ! And we are asked , as His followers to extend this same grace………..to others!~ keeping no record of wrongs…….with man it is impossible, but…….JESUS ! Also in Colossians 2:6 Holy Spirit tells us……..As you have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him:…….Let it Be !!!!!

  4. Sherri H on March 22, 2021 at 7:52 am

    amen forgiveness such a hard one at times but a must or bitterness, anger, hatred etc will eat at your life and lead to a miserable life 🤔

    • Dave Pettigrew on March 23, 2021 at 2:03 pm

      So true. If we decide to live in the bitterness, anger and hatred, that’s what we continually push into the world. No thanks, give me hope, peace, love and the freedom of Jesus any day….

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